Morality is a factor for many people when deciding whether or not to have premarital sex. Is it a factor for you? After all, the messages we receive from most TV shows and movies these days tell us "everyone is doing it." In light of today's permissive attitude, your peers may think you're weird to even question it.
But maybe there is something inside you, like a voice in your head, that is making you uncertain about whether or not sex before marriage is a right or wrong action. Many people refer to this voice as their conscience. How can you know if your "conscience" is right? People all around the world look to the Bible as a moral or religious book, so let's see what it says about premarital sex.
The Bible refers to premarital sex as fornication. That's a word we don't hear much these days, so what does it mean? Fornication is sexual intercourse between people who are not married to each other. The only distinction the Bible makes between premarital sex and adultery is that adultery involves married persons while fornication involves those who are unmarried. Premarital sex is just as much of a sin as adultery and all other forms of sexual immorality. They all involve having sexual relations with someone you are not married to.
The Bible explains,"...The body is not meant for sexual immorality, but for the Lord, and the Lord of the body" (1 Corinthians 6:13). Verse 18 of this chapter goes on to say, "Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sins against his own body." Galatians 5:19 speaks the same, "The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity..."Ephesians 5:3 says it most plainly,"But among you there must not be even a hint of sexual immorality, or of any kind of impurity, or of greed, because these are improper to God's holy people. "From these verses, we see that the Bible promotes complete and total abstinence from premarital-sex.
QUESTIONS:
- Can you cite the reason why do our youth nowadays engage themselves to premarital-sex?
- Compare the ways of youth today from the youth in the past.
- How can this problem be solved?
- What do you think are the motives of those people committing premarital-sex?
- Imagine if all the people commit premarital-sex, what will happen?
- Do you believe that it is immoral to commit premarital-sex? Why?
ESSAY: Create a paragraph about you stand in the issue of premarital sex. Do you believe that premarital sex is an immoral act or not. Explain.